If you have been anywhere near a teen or tween in the recent past you couldn’t have escaped this term. Wikipedia defines the term as “friends at ease.” It goes on to note that friends desire what is best for the other person and demonstrate sympathy, empathy, honesty, understanding, compassion, trust, and reciprocity. Wow! Don’t we all need a lot of friends?
Abraham called himself a friend of God. That’s sometimes hard for us to think of the creator and sustainer of our universe wanting to be our friend. In Psalm 8:4, David shared this dilemma when he writes, “what are mere mortals that you should think about them, human beings that you should care for them?”(NLT) Yet David had a keen understanding that God knows us intimately. In Psalm 139:13, he notes, “You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb.”
God’s willingness to have a frienship with us is even more amazing when you consider that we have nothing to bring to the partnership. Jesus, the son of God tells us in John 15:16, “You didn’t chose me. I chose you.” How cool that God invites us to hang out with him when we are emptyhanded. Just imagine a friend that can live inside us. He want’s us to be friends at ease. Who better than an all powerful God can desire what is best for the us and demonstrate genuine sympathy, empathy, honesty, understanding, compassion, trust, and reciprocity? Maybe we don’t need a lot of friends, but we definitely need one true friend in Jesus! Have some great Hang Time with Jesus.