March 7, 2011 "Defining Moments"

March 7, 2011   “Defining Moments”

            You can call them whatever you like.   Flashpoints, Milestones, Forks in the Road, or Turning Points.  These phrases speak of moments in time when there is a great potential for change.   If we define the word define we’d see it means to classify, identify, characterize or delineate.  As parents, we thirst for defining moments like these with our kids and young adults.  We want people to know who they are In Christ and the enormous possibilities that lay ahead.  

            It’s too bad we can’t schedule times like this.   It would seem too contrived and people would feel “preached at.”   Instead we have to look for teachable moments during “Hang Times.”   Remember Jesus’ dinners, seaside chats, weddings, and walks through the field?  He capitalized on opportunities to “hang” with others.   We might do this over a cone of soft serve ice-cream, chili and cheese, cookies, or a cappuccino; but take time to cultivate time with others, especially those who are younger in the faith.  

           Some people are like St. Peter, always opening their mouths to reveal a need for growth, but we need to ask open ended questions.  What has the Lord been saying to you?   How can you deal with a guy who doesn't love you as much as you love him?   What are you going to do when you grow up? 

            Ephesians 6:18 instructs us to “pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests.  With this in mind, be alert and always keep praying for all the Lord’s people.”   Pray and be ready to act on these types of openings that will help others become characterized and delineated as God’s people.   Have a great evening!